Sacred Crow Counseling and Consulting is a mental health private practice that operates on
the land of the Piscataway Conoy tribe. This practice is eternally grateful to the
Piscataway Conoy people for establishing and tending to this land.
Thank you.
S A C R E D C R O W
counseling + consulting
Stress Mitigation + Release Therapy Services
When the inevitables of life pile up, stress floods and overwhelms our system.
We might feel and think that if we just “get rid of the stress” or “fix it,”
life will slow and calm down once again.
The fact of the matter is that life is inherently and universally stressful.
Stress is a natural and innate response, meaning we are hardwired to feel it, face it, and move with it.
Many of us haven’t learned how to befriend our stress. How to notice it with compassion, lean into it with curiosity, and move through it feeling grounded and connected. When we are able to
increase our awareness of our physiological response to stress, we can learn to
implement and ingrain skills and strategies to cope + be with the overwhelm.
Interestingly enough stress is a good thing when contained and regulated.
Good stress is known as eustress, which is stress that energizes and motivates us to change.
It allows for a positive outlook on a situation, and makes us capable of overcoming obstacles.
Stress can rear its ugly head when it becomes chronic and feels like distress.
The important thing to remember is that any stress can be
eustress, and distress can be attuned to depending on how we
perceive + think + feel + behave around the circumstance.
It’s not the stress that hurts us, it’s our reaction to it.
Through counseling, you will gain an awareness of your stress triggers,
learn how your body + thoughts + feelings respond to stress, and
integrate new coping strategies and skills that help you feel grounded and calm,
while minimizing the impact of stress on the body.
How Distress Impacts You
Lack of sleep
Headaches
Mood changes
Changes in appetite
Shortness of breath
Tightness in chest
Digestive issue
Feelings of overwhelm
Stress-Related Resources
“How To Make Stress Your Friend” TedTalk by Kelly McGonigal
The American Institute of Stress - www.stress.org
“The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook” by Matthew McKay, Martha Davis, and Elizabeth Robbins Eshleman
“The Anxiety and Worry Workbook” by David Clarke and Aaron Beck
Guided Meditations by Lina Grace on YouTube
Bodhi Tree Biolateral Sound Healing Album
How Eustress Impacts You
Increased energy
Motivation
Increased focus
Creates excitement
Increased self-efficacy
Increased productivity
Increased positive outlook
Lack of focus
Increased resilience
Examples of Eustress Stressors
Exercise
Socializing
Mindfulness/meditation
Building a relationship or friendship
Vacationing
Listening to music
Achieving a goal
Engaging in self-care
Examples of Distress Stressors
Deadlines
Financial crisis
Relationship problems
Death of loved one
Abuse and feeling neglected
Illness or injury
Work problems
Worrying